I have regretfully grown very frustrated with my Twitter experience. Many of the people I was following were becoming more of an annoyance than anything, and something had to be done or I was going to tear my hair out. So for the last two weeks, I spent some time carefully evaluating my connections and giving culprits the big boot. This post looks at the top reasons why over 20 people ended up as a part of my #unfollowfriday experiment, and how my life is so much better because of it.
Multiple Twitter Accounts
One thing that is worth noting is that I maintain three different Twitter accounts. Most of my readers here are familiar with @aldeneaton, my professional account. I also have a second business account for my startup @showasis. Finally, I have a third account (personal) which I keep private and use to talk with my friends and family. Here are how the numbers broke down:
Total Unfollowed: 24
- 92% of the culprits came from my professional account
- 4% of the culprits came from my personal account
- 4% of the culprits came from my startup account
I bring this up because I was shocked to see that an overwhelming number of the people I unfollowed came from my business account, which primarily includes advertisers, entrepreneurs, and more than anything – health care professionals. This is surprising because you would expect the advertisers and all the “social media experts” to have the best Tweeting habits. Alas, I learned they were actually the worst. No wonder so many people beyond advertising are so skeptical of Twitter.
Below are the top four reasons why I unfollowed people:
Reason #4: Never saying anything interesting.
I follow people because I think they are interesting. Many of the people I follow on Twitter hold important positions in the marketplace – they are CMOs, entrepreneurs, consultants, and “social media experts.” However I quickly found that a lot of these people do not live up to the title.
The key is to strike a balance between demonstrating your personality while staying relevant. I love to follow people whose 4 out of every 5 Tweets are specific to the reason why I followed them in the first place. The remaining Tweet can and should be about your children, the bike ride you took last weekend, or what you’re reading right now. If I unfollowed someone for this reason, it was because the majority of their Tweets did not do anything to make me smarter, more informed, or entertained.
Reason #3: Tweeting too much.
I keep a pretty close watch on my Twitter stream, so I’m checking it multiple times a day. What drives me crazy is when I have to scroll through 6 Tweets from the same user every time I check my feed. I don’t want using Twitter to feel like a scavenger hunt, where I have to diligently scroll through one person’s trash to find a gem just because they can’t practice some self control. If you’re going to Tweet 10 times a day, at least spread it out so they don’t pile up and cause a problem for your followers.
Reason #2: Re-Tweeting your own links.
Entrepreneurs are especially guilty of this one. We have multiple businesses with multiple Twitter accounts. I’m in that boat too. But one thing that drives me nuts (and makes you look bad) is when you constantly Re-Tweet your own links. Doing so only makes you look desperate for traffic and it reflects negatively on your personal brand and affiliated organizations.
Reason #1: Overkill on social media advocacy.
Most of the people I follow include CMOs, entrepreneurs, consultants, and “social media experts.” I follow because I think they are interesting and have something to offer. Yet the majority of the people I unfollowed were the social media experts, consultants, and entrepreneurs who are supposed to be great at this stuff. The problem I encountered was that many are drunk on the social media kool-aid and shamefully contribute to groupthink and irresponsible messaging.
The scary thing is some of these people include key industry influencers and “thought leaders.” Embracing social media is great. In fact, I have a professional interest in social media succeeding. I want it to grow as big as we all expect it to. But only a fool approaches it without some level of skepticism. I feel like some of the famed “thought leaders” in health care social media especially are blindly leading the industry to a dangerous cliff without any sense of responsibility.
Conclusion
The moral of the story is, find some balance in your Tweeting habits. Don’t Tweet too often, but don’t Tweet too little. Be interesting and relevant, but don’t completely neglect your personal life. Embrace the comprehensive social media discussion, but do it with a level of maturity and skepticism. We will all be more grateful for it!
- What Twitter habits bother you the most?
- Do you ever give other people the boot?
- Should Miley Cyrus return to Twitter?
